The more you relate to your physical form rather than identifying with it, the less threatened you feel.
“We are only a thought away”. This applies to all those beings in spirit world who have pledged to help those in the physical world.
Living with yourself is the biggest mystery of all. The more you look the less you find.
As human beings you often look at the past considering it the future…..there is no future for that past.
Trust who you are, not what you are doing because who you are is timeless.
The future does not exist except within the space of your mind.
Q: My mother is suffering from dementia and does not recognise me. Yet I had a strange experience where via a medium I received a communication from my mother who of course is still alive. What’s happening?
M: Just because her mind is not operating in the way that you are used to when you are talking to your mother it is nevertheless telepathically active. She can still communicate with you from her present life mind. However this is not the mind that is encased in the physical form but it is the mind that is free to be in the physical form and also exist at a level that is wider than that. You do need to remember that when you leave this body you do still have this mind although it might be a little veiled to you.
Therefore because the mind exists beyond the physical body it is able to communicate with you in this subtle way but of course you can no longer communicate with it by normal means because of the physical limitation.
This means that you can also communicate with your mother via telepathy and the reason for this working is that you are in essence talking soul to soul. Never give up with somebody who is unable to communicate with you in a physical way because communication is always possible at the subtle level.
People with dementia are stepping into a new personality so to speak because they are withdrawing. However because the physical form is still here it does take a while to disengage. At the same time because they are still here it means they still have something to do by way of completing with the family and other people around them. As long as the physical form continues there is still light within that person. It would be incorrect to say that they have totally gone to spirit as part of the soul is still here although they are definitely transiting.
So the part that communicated with you is the part that is still here not the part that is already passing to spirit.
Q: For the last year I have been using a book called A Course In Miracles which involves a daily mediation on different themes and found it very inspirational. What is the source of this book, and was it channelled?
M: One moment please. A Course in Miracles is the work of a Master and when we speak of a Master we mean a congruent work, brought down by the powerhouse of one specific Master, who has gathered countless helpers around in order to bring it down. It is brought down by mind transference and input although it is condensed by different minds which assist in the inputting. The recipient is called a medium who then has the instruction of writing. It will then be transferred to countless people, it is a very specific work, which did not belong to the belief of the medium. However it was time for it to be brought down. It works in this way, that when the need is there with many, many beings moving in the dark all asking the same things, then there is a response.
What is it that they are asking? They are asking for guidance and they are asking for help. They come from the tradition that is linked to the great Master Jesus. They are asking in their heart because perhaps they do not believe anymore in the outer form that has become the religion. That call even if it’s done by those countless little lights becomes one sound. That answer can only come if the need is expressed. It does not have to be expressed with words, but it is strong in the sense of despair that calls:
“God You are there, but You disappoint me because You never are involved with me”
Something like that let’s say, very, very superficially. When the teachers see that there are a vast number of calls then somebody will gather ‘books’ or teachings. There are ‘books’ of revelation from the great teachers but they all were transferred from higher Divine impulse. Nowadays prophets are there, but they do not come forward and speak to the crowds, because its not so well understood, so other means are used that are appropriate for this time. The teaching is gathered in different ways and is brought down slightly differently but it’s still brought down to a level that the human being can accept and groups can gather together, without the need for to form a new religion.
Groups will gather for A Course In Miracles and help countless people but it does not require this more hierarchical structure. So the Masters are very interested to assist without creating too many hierarchical structures because this has been experienced in past and has been rather detrimental.
Of course there is a hierarchy because the Master is above and there always gradients of evolutionary beings, it is the norm obviously. But the way that they are teaching has to be more informal shall we say; less with a specific gradient that the teaching can only be given to those people and not to those other people, that excludes this and that, it has to be inclusive.
To spread the teaching more use has been made of those humble mediums that feel they don’t know what they are doing, they are stumbling here and there but at least they are making themselves available. Maybe what they bring down is not a complete perfect imprint, but it’s good enough and does what it has to do. So, in the case of A Course in Miracles it’s from a very high source, we have explained how it was given. It is very relevant indeed because it was called upon by countless beings to receive a book that could assist them thoroughly in their Christian belief without disturbing, neither adding, nor eliminating things but opening, opening more what was already there do you understand? Would that suffice to you?
Q: Yes, that’s a wonderful answer than you very much.
Q: I have had a big disagreement with a close friend. Communication has now broken down. Is there anything I can do about this? I am very upset.
Munjiji:
Where you have a close relationship with somebody and then that deteriorates it’s usually a karmic relationship. When the emotions are running rather high this does disturb you internally and now has to be a period of readjusting. What you can do in the meantime is to send a mental level of communication and this is really the only thing you can do when there has been such a dissonance that communication is impossible.
You can imagine your friend seated opposite you and to have a very natural conversation by sending your good thoughts and goodwill to convey to her higher mind and her lower mind whatever it is you wish to convey which at this present moment cannot be expressed or communicated. If you do this then some doors may be opened if they are meant to be opened. In the meantime as you are adjusting to these emotional changes the distance may actually produce some clarity in you and she can look at things differently too. What you are doing is preparing the ground for further communication with her by communicating directly with her higher self.
We suggest you practice this in the evening, not long before you go to bed, when you are quiet, not in a hurry and when you truly have something in your heart; that you still have things that you want to say. When you are visualising your friend sitting opposite you as well as seeing her as she actually is also see her as a bright light. Talk to her about the things were you feel you have not been understood because if there has been an argument it means misunderstanding. The level of experiencing one another has gone astray, you are experiencing one another’s differences rather than your similarities and commonalities. So in this practice talk to her for a few minutes or for the time that you need to say all the things that you need to say and after that you can go to bed and let it go because you have offered that communication to her higher self.
The higher self is very clever and that’s why it’s called the higher self, it is there to oversee the way you work with your personality, the way your mind operates and the way your emotional being operates. You can call this being that overseas you your soul or the essence of yourself it does not really matter but it is the part that overseas your operative being. Your higher self is assisting you to tune into her higher self so that if there is a door open, if there is a response if there is a possibility to move on from this stagnant place then something will happen. After you’ve done this exercise several times you will probably have the knowing as to whether or not you can approach her. Of course you may have the sense that this has really finished and you need to leave it. There will be an knowing an internal knowing.
Remember dear friends thoughts are very powerful and the positive thoughts you send to one another always make a difference even if you never witness the outcome.
Irritation being Expressed
Q:I have a lot of aches and pains in my body and I would like your help in resolving this please. Sometimes people who have these symptoms call it Fibromyalgia.
Munjiji: Fibromyalgia is a term for a collection of symptoms that move around the body. From our position we see this as a malfunction at the energetic level and this can be from various causes. With regard to you dear questioner many factors could be causing this but one that we would like to focus on is irritation in your life because this can cause inflamation in different parts of the body. Tracking this irritability can become quite elusive because if you are so used to it you don’t really see it anymore but it does link to a state of mind where irritability has not been expressed. The principle is that when the irritant energy is trying to move through your subtle body and finds that the route is restricted then it travels elsewhere internally causing symptoms.
There is nothing wrong with expressing irritability particularly if the situation is appropriate. Sometimes you need to display your irritation rather than containing it because containing it then becomes an irritation to the nerves and muscles and it can go to the glands. How you deal with an irritant in your life is quite crucial to the overall process of healing. The irritant actually contains energy and this energy can move you to do something to deal with the irritation it’s not necessarily just displaying the emotion of irritation; it can be quite a positive thing to start a change in circumstances. It is sometimes said that anger is God’s fire for change.
You need to notice this subtle level of irritant in your system but not as a judgement that it shouldn’t be there. It is also a good measurement of the element of fire that is within you that needs an outlet. As you become more aware of the irritation you can begin to express it. You can express it to a mirror or cushion or maybe even to the person in question. You also mentioned frustration and again it’s the same principal the energy gets turned towards the muscles, skeletal and nervous system. All the elements are there: fire, air, earth and water and this is a question of mastering them and in this case it is the element of fire, otherwise illness comes. Own your fire and you will see some of the symptoms receding. You need to catch this in the moment though because fire is very quickly hidden and festers in the body.
Q: Yes but what do I do when friends ask for favours, like coming for an extended visit, but I need boundaries, at the same time I want to help.
This is a very good example because the irritation with your friend precisely in that moment it showed you when your boundary had been crossed. This is not criticising your friend but different people have different boundaries which they have a right to. If you didn’t have that fire in you telling you when you’ve reached your limit then disaster will strike. This can happen in any situation and then you need to honour that irritation rather than saying I should be a different person. This way you find the boundaries within generosity. Everyones’ generosity is limited when they do not have a sense of their boundaries. If you have a sense of what you can and cannot give then you can be generous whereas people who are not generous are like this because often they are afraid that they will be taken over.
People who are generous are not fools they are able to exercise that spirit of generosity without losing contact with their true self. People who are naturally generous tend not to turn into a victim. They know their limitations and they do not let other people define their boundaries for them. They are able to use the fire element in them to set boundaries.
Now when you give too much eventually the polar opposite will take place in different circumstances with different people and when you could have given more you will then actually give less. To begin with you have to practice giving and restricting and eventually this turns into a natural energetic flow of give and take which you find harmonious. Be daring and experiment with generosity alongside your boundaries.
Munjiji 